Grounding and Connecting the Society for Betterment
Helping People, to find their voice so that they collectively unite for betterment of the society.
Greeshma Nataraj, charismatic and positive personality, founder of Greeshma Nataraj Counselling Cafe' who has been appreciated and awarded for her services for inspiring people.
Greeshma has received awards and certification of gratitude as a Life Coach, Tarot Card Reader and Motivational Speaker
Greeshma, the name itself connects you with a climate spring, which gives a soothing picture of sunshine, greenery, everywhere blossoms of flowers and chirping sound of birds which will make you fall in love with the nature. Similarly, Greeshma is a dynamic personality apt to her name. Greeshma is exactly that spring season which makes you fall in love with her.
She has got a degree in Finance & Auditing along with a degree in cost accountancy, but the assets & liabilities, balance sheets, work in progress, audit notes never interested her, she just followed her heart despite having such great degrees. She has proficiency in 9 Indian Languages other than English and 2 foreign languages, traveled from Northern hemisphere to Southern hemisphere, Eastern and Western parts of India leaving across her impact on people's life style.
It was Greeshma’ s hobby to read body languages of people and then eventually she got attracted towards Tarot Cards. She was introduced to cards, when she was growing up in her late teens. They sound to be fascinating her and her attraction towards them made her to take up a course for Tarot Card reading and gradually she started practicing it with her inborn quality of body language reading. Unofficially she started doing it amongst her friend circles when she was 20 and now when she looks back its really 21 odd years that she had built up herself, growing with different people across the globe by giving readings in a professional way.
This journey has not only outgrown her, but she has also touched various aspects of lives of different people by providing guidance with the help of TAROT CARDS and PSYCHOLOGY COUNSELLING for their unanswered questions. As Counselor and Tarot Card Reader she could let out some helpful solutions regarding the never-ending thoughts of subconscious mind or interpretations of their dreams or any insecurity taking their health, love life, career, money etc.
Always aspiring to do something for others kept her moving and then she came to know that she wanted to really do something which can help mankind & nature. She got inclined towards Psychology when she came down to India and that further took her to be a Psychology Counsellor along with following Certifications
• M.Sc - Integrative Counseling and Psychotherapy
• Certified Psychological Counsellor
• Certified Cognitive Behavioural Therapist
• Certified Child Psychology (Accredited by CTAA)
• Certified Life Coach
• Certified NLP Trainer
• Certified Tarot Master
• Certified Handwriting Analyst
• Certified Signature Analyst
• Certified Body Language Analyst
• Certified EFT/TFT Master Practitioner ( Accredited
She just believes in one thing that if you have passion and love towards your hobby take it one step ahead and make it as your profession because you will start enjoying and living your life by gaining some monetary benefits also. Life is full of excitement, love, passion and then comes achievements with proper planning.
Life is to explore and learn new things changes happen with experience and Greeshma’ s belief has always been to inspire everyone around her to live life as it is the most precious gift in this world and you get it once so live and grow with all while inspiring others.
For many, desire to do business is not out of happiness but for happiness. She never thought to start-up organisation to be a competitor or threat to others. For her it is her clients & her satisfaction at the end of the day. For her it is accomplishment of her services which brings smile on her clients face making them a strong personality by her intervention in their life and that satisfying gesture works as reward from her clients.
Whether competitors like it or not she experiences the joy of imparting clarity in minds of her clients and touch their mind and hearts. This joy of imparting clarity is itself her reward. It does not matter to her whether her competitor likes her or not, whether she has lakhs of numbers of clientele or not. She gets her rewards when her clientele mind gets clearer from her attempts. She doesn’t want bigger number as she just wants more people to get benefits.
It was her passion she wanted to follow, and she is following, She always had competition within her along with her which made her a much better person day by day instilling more confidence in her to deal with the different people across the different states & countries wherever she moved in.
Life Coach is not a therapy. Live Coaches doesn’t work on past based issues or traumas. Life coaches are not therapists. Life Coaches focus on the present & the client’s goals for the future. They help people more forward & set personal and professional goals that will give them the life they really want.
Life Coach will help you win in your own life!
A Good Life Coach is never afraid to tell you the truth and is willing to be a friend at any time, so why not have a best friend and a life coach? Life coaching is a relationship between an accredited life coach and a client designed to tap in your fill potentials. Life coach can address your personal and business coaching needs for both your personal & professional life. As in gym we see how Coach helps you to attain your goal taking your body physique, the perfect life coach is to help you reach your biggest goals and dreams. Life Coaches have the ability to view things from a far and to focus new light on difficult situations. They often can act as a sounding board through tough decisions, they help sharpen skills and motivate. A well-trained life coach knows how to use the right words so that you are naturally motivated. Coaching typically works best with a weekly call so clients have time to integrate new ways of thinking & take action each week towards their goals.
You will achieve more in less time with the input of an accredited life coach on your side. Most people find that things start to happen very quickly after hiring a life coach, if there is a gap between where you are now and where you want to be, there is room for life coaching. Not only will your life coach help you close the gap, your life coach will help you break through your limited beliefs & the challenge you to think bigger.
Things Life Coach works on
· Setting the Goals and Objectives
· Planning : Business, Career and Life
· Cleaning Clutter of blocks of thoughts
· Clearing Fears
· Balancing Business and Personal Life
· Becoming a problem free zone
· Building powerful relationships
· Making an important life transition
· Identifying core Values and Passions
· Fulfilling Personal & Emotional needs
And much more
Why do people hire a Life Coach
· They want more
· They want to grow
· They want it to be easier
It’s that simple as that.
Life Coaching, Guidance, Wellness, Life Style, Mindfulness, Career Goals, Anxiety Relief, Emotions
Tarot can be used as a powerful tool for reaching a confident level of decision making and motivating for the right accurate communication.
Tarotology is the hypothetical basis for the reading of TAROT CARDS.
Tarot Cards were originally used in games and are still used for that purpose in many parts of Europe. It is not considered a science therefore it’s a practice of pseudoscience.
The belief in the divinatory meaning of the cards is closely associated with a belief in their occult properties.
“ TAROT “ came from the Egyptian words ‘ TAR ‘, “ PATH “ or “ ROAD “ and the word ‘ RO ‘, ‘ ROS ‘ or ‘ ROG ‘, meaning “ KING “ or “ ROYAL “, and that the TAROT literally translated to the “ ROYAL ROAD of LIFE ”.
Despite this lack of any evidence, the belief that the TAROT cards are linked to the Egyptian Book of Thoth Continues in Modern Urban Legend to the present day.
In these all the Cards are illustrated in accordance with Qabalistic Principles most being influenced by the Rider Waite Deck.
From Psychological Point of View, there are those who believe that the person themselves is the once making the connections between the cards. Some believe that Tarot is useful either because it is a way to let one’s subconscious speak, or because of meaning feel coincidences between the situations or question at hand and the cards.
Tarot is entertaining, thought provoking and beautiful. Cards Artwork is really stunning and amazing. Tarot Cards will only have as much power and meanings as you allow it to have.
Tarot can be used as a powerful tool for reaching a confident level of decision making and motivating for the right accurate communication.
To clear the blurred images of mind and thoughts, to clear the battle of objective and subjective thoughts, TAROT can be used to bring in the shining array of light energy in your love life, for your emotions for your family for your business and for each and every difficult path of life for which decisions are to be made.
The main criticisms of TAROT CARD reading is its distinct lack of common reading method among its practitioners.
These cards help highly sensitive people, who feel comfortable working with Tarot only if it’s extremely gentle and safe. Traditionally Tarot was shrouded in secrecy to avoid the persecution of those which spiritual gifts. Yet, Tarot is still in the most accurate tool with which to receive detailed information and answers of-course, you can get guidance by going directly to GOD, JESUS and the ANGELS. However, when you are stressed, it is difficult to feel or ear their presence or message. That’s when Tarot Card can create a pipe line to heavenly guidance to you.
There a different type of Tarot Cards, they can be Oracle Cards, Angel Tarot Cards, Guardian Angel Cards etc. The only real difference between the Angel Cards and Tarot Cards is that the later follows a structured story line of what life is like on earth. We are born, go to school, meet friends, fall in love, get married, and chose careers. All these aspects of life and many more are found in Tarot. Every Card is safe for highly sensitive people.
Tarot originally consists of two sets of cards, which is called ARCANA. Which is further called as MAJOR ARCANA and MINOR ARCANA. THE MAJOR ARCANA, which comprises of Twenty-Two Cards that describe major events and turning points. In our lives relationship, career changes, marriage, pregnancy and over all personal challenges. The Major Arcana Cards can also represent the difference phases from childhood to old age.
The Second Set of Cards, which are called THE MINOR ARCANA, which consists of four suits representing different aspects human life. The Minor Arcana Cards are numbered 1 (ACE) through 10, plus additional 4 Cards that are traditionally referred to as COURT CARDS the Page, The Knight, The Queen and The King. The Major Arcana reflects Major Life Transitions, The Minor Arcana represents the data to day aspects people in our life.
In Traditional Tarot, the four suits of Minor Arcana are usually named as WANDS, COUPS, SWARDS and COINS. In Angel Tarot Cards they are called ACTION, IMOTION, THOUGHT and ABUNDANCE. In Angel Cards the name of The Minor Arcana Card is FRIENDS CARDs. In these Friends Cards the Messenger, Helper, Healer and Guardian can represent either as situation or person during reading.
On Historical Note, The Major Arcana was originally created with Justice as the 8th Card and Strength as the 11th Card. However, in the earlier 20th Century ARTHUR EDWARD WAITE created his famous RIDER-WAITE DECK which is still used by all Tarot Card Readers.
Greeshma believes that nothing is concrete and is the same implied with predictions. It also has got several escapes. Everybody on this earth has to go through the thick and thins of life even her self. She has been believing that every adult has a tolerating patience and if it goes over flow then she uses her power to guide that adult who approaches her.
Greeshma's strong belief: “when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it,” The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho.
Greeshma has got this skills within her, may be because of her good deeds or her karma's that she can act as a catalyst for others to guide them in a proper directions to make their intuitions come true and direct their manas and buddhi together to carry forward their dreams to come true.
She started as a hobby 21 years ago, it has really been an adventurous path of her life which has grown her as a spiritual guide also. Greeshma have touched different aspects of life of different people by giving readings, predictions and guidance with the help of tarot cards, body language, face readings and their auras.
Predictions, Forecast, Universal Energies, Karmas, Intuitions, Dreams, Spiritual Life, Readings
People might think that Tarot is just seeing the images of cards and explaining, no not at all. Tarot reading is a whole process where, you not only get your answers to your questions, but also discipline yourself with process of meditation and controls your intensity of emotions.
As the nature of human being we are all very curious to know the answers for each and every changes which are taking place in our life and are also anxious to known our future and what is next going to happen in near future. In this scenario predictions plays upper hand or can say they are empowering. In any case if a little of this is revealed to us then, we among human being feel that we can make right selection of path or idea and make the best use of it with better amendments.
Reading TAROT CARDS has always given a positive energy and looking at the things in positive perspective. She have always been very grounded and practical and down to earth person throughout her life and that’s the way when she came across different clients of her from different type of society they could easily relate to me and trust me. Which is her power for going on board with TAROT CARDS along with simplicity, knowledge and intuitively.
She believe in one thing that GOD has created all of us with same flesh and blood and some senses, but some of us are more blessed by some extra powerful senses and she is happy to be blessed among one of them. So she believe that our lives are determined by our own choices and we are aware of our consequences knowingly unknowingly or subconsciously. She help people by giving readings through TAROT, FACE READING, BODY LANGUAGE so people can make right decisions for themselves.
She usually give a half-hour reading.
She start with quick briefing, like what happened in past and then on that what shall be coming up in future. Then the focus is on the questions, which her clients want to ask. She have given her clients the freedom to ask any sort of doubts or questions, while she does spread.
She also give 15 min reading slots where the time is limited, for 15 min session only 2 specific questions will be answered.
* All personal readings, please confirm the appointments prior* Please be specific in your mind for the questions to be asked, especially for 15 min slots.
Handwriting Analysis is also called as Graphology. It is the analysis of the physical characteristics and patterns of handwriting indicating the psychological state at the time of writing, or evaluating personality characteristics. It is generally considered pseudoscience
The term is sometimes incorrectly used to refer to forensic document examination, due to the fact that aspects of the latter dealing with the examination of handwritten documents are occasionally referred to as graphanalysis.
This is used for changing a person’s handwriting with the goal of changing features of his / her personality.
Handwriting Analysis does have its plausible-sounding separations from those other techniques like iridology, palmistry, astrology.
Signature Analysis have a lot to say about your personality. Signatures are symbols of personality traits. The science on signatures is little iffy. The studies say that it is more reliable than others.
The Signature represents what we feel about our identity and how would we as an induvial like to be looked in the society. It defines us, our ideal ego, it is also an introduction letter that sends subconscious signals about how you are and about how you see yourself.
Neuro Linguistic Programming ( NLP )
Neuro refers to your neurology, Linguistic refers to Language, Programming reefers to how the neural language functions. In other words, NLP is like learning the language of your own mind.
NLP is like user manual for the brain, and how to become fluent in the language of your mind so that this ever so helpful server that is your unconscious mind will finally understand what you want out of life.
NLP is the study of excellent communication both with yourself & with others. It was developed by modelling excellent communications and therapists who got results with their clients. NLP is a set of tools and techniques, but it is an attitude and a methodology of knowing how to achieve your goals and get results.
NLP is marked by some hypnotherapists and some companies that organise seminars and workshops on management training and business. There is no scientific evidence supporting the claims made by NLP advocates and it has been discredited as a Pseudoscience by experts.
NLP can be understood in terms of Three broad components and the Central Concepts pertaining to those
NLP can be understanding in terms of several information about a problem, mental state & desired goals, using specific tools and techniques to make interventions & integrating proposed changes in client’s life. The entire process is guided by the nonverbal responses of the client.
The Client is typically encouraged to consider the consequences of the desired outcome and they may affect his or her personal or professional life and relationships considering many positive intentions of any problems that may arise.
Counselling is an intervention that can help individuals deal with the crisis by healing and offering support by reaching the core of the problem.
# Family and Child Counselling
# Premarital Counselling ( 3 day's Session)
# Marriage Counselling
Starting counselling for many of us is really a freaky proposition. Why should we ?
Sue Patton Thoele “Deep listening is miraculous for both the listener and speaker. When someone receives us with open hearted, non-judging, intensely interested listening, our spirits expand. “
From the Birth on wards we enter relationships, firstly with our family and as we grow with friends and eventually we move into love relationships. These love relationships are the ones I (will) focus on, I am at anyone experiencing unhappy, unfulfilling or difficult times. Be assured, you are not alone in feeling this way. It may be that you sense a certain distance or friction between you and you partner, or that you no longer feel the deep of sense of.
Many people live their lives in “Automatic Pilot” wake up go to work, quick lunch, meetings tight schedule, commuting, back home and social media, screen time and sleep. Some find time for friendship and family but even the relationships can get into the old routine and patterns, without much attention or care.
We know from many studies that the right therapeutic relationship is vital to healing in counselling. This means that it is important to find the person, both in terms of personality fit and relevant experience deals with you fairly and ethically and is upfront and clear in dealing with any questions or concerns that you might have.
Many of my clients tell me that the experiences of being truly heard by another person is deeply healing experience.
It is often a life changing experience for a client to have the opportunity to explore their thoughts and feelings in a supportive safe, confidential and getting challenging space. I am sure that Dr. Ralph Nichols, “the father of the study listening was right when he said that most basic of all human needs is to understand and be understood. The best way to understand people is to listen to them”.
So, here I am to facilitate you to change your own and growth and most of that to make you understand and to be heard by your own people.
The term “COUNSELLING “is of American Origin by ROGERS. During World War II, the U.S. Military had a strong need for vocational placement and training. In the 1940s and 1950s the veteran’s administrations created a specially called “COUNSELLING PHYSCOLOGY “and Division of APA was formed. In today’s date the Counseling Physiology as a profession has expended and is not represented in numerous countries around the world. Counseling process refer to HOW or WHY Counseling happens and progresses.
The relationship between the counselor and the client is the feelings and attitude that a client and therapist have towards one another, and the manner in which those feelings and attitudes are expressed.
Counseling outcome measures might look at a general overview of symptoms, symptoms of specific disorders or positive outcomes, such as subjective well-being or quality of life.
Counseling is that process, that occurs when a client and counselor set a side time to explore difficulties which may include the stressful or emotional feelings of the client.
The act of helping the client to see things more clearly, possibility, different point of view. This can enable the client to focus on feelings, experiences or behaviors with a goal to facilitating positive change in client.
Counseling is NOT giving advice, been judgmental, attempting to sort out the problem of client or expecting or encouraging a client to behave in a way in which the counselor may have behaved when confronted with similar problems in their own life. It’s also not getting emotionally involved with the clients. The counselor neither judges, nor offer advice. The Counselor gives the client an opportunity to express difficult feelings such as anger, resentment, guilt and fear in confidential environment. The Counselor may encourage the client to examine parts of their life's that they may have found difficult or impossible to face before. There may be some exploration of child-wood experiences to though some light on why an individual reacts or responds in certain ways in given situations. This is often followed by considering ways in which client may change such behavior.
Effective Counseling reduces confusion, allowing the client to make effective decision leading to positive changes in their attitude and / or behavior. Effective Counseling is not advice giving and not acting on someone else behalf. The ultimate aim of counseling is to enable the client to make their own choices, reach their own decisions and to act upon them accordingly.
Marriage rates supposedly are on the decline. While it’s an oft repeated statistic that 50% of first marriage ends in divorce that has remained unchanged for past 30 years in west as compared to India. Divorce rate also varies with partners level of education, religious beliefs and many other factors.
When divorce does happen, it results in difficulties of adults as well as children. For adults it can be one of life most stressful life event. The decision to divorce often is met with ambivalence and uncertainty about future. If children are involved, they may experience negative effects such as denial, feelings of abandonment, anger, blame, guilt, preoccupation with reconciliation and acting out. When couple encounter problems or issues they may wander. When it is appropriate to seek marriage counselling. Here are seven good reasons.
1. communication has become negative
2. When one or both partners consider having an affair or one partner has had an affair,
3. When the couple seems to be “just occupying the same space”,
4. When the partners do not know how to resolve their differences
5. When one partner begins to act on negative feelings,
6. When the only resolution appears to be separation,
7. When a couple is staying together for the sake of their children.
Getting married is a huge deal. Marriage is an institution, means you commit yourself to loving and being with your spouse for rest of your life - in good as well as bad times. It implies that you are already to take the plunge and start a new life with the one you love.
Pre-marriage counselling is a great way to help couples prepare for their marriage.
As investing in your relationship before you are married will reap rewards for many years to come.
Many newly engaged couples are taking charge of their upcoming marriage by seeking couples therapy to strengthen their relationship. The best premarital counselling topics to discuss are ones that will make couples feel prepared, that open lines of communication and that talk about potential problems couples may encounter in the future. Go into your marriage feeling prepared and confident that you can take on any problems concerning sex, finances, family obligations, children, work and even infidelity.
Here are 10 ways that will help couple before marriage to strengthen their relationship.
1. learn to communicate
2. Discuss past issues,
3. Gel to know one another,
4. Discuss potential problems,
5. Learn to solve problems,
6. Discuss expectations,
7. Comfortably discuss finances,
8. Strengthen your relationship,
9. Have an outsider’s perspective,
10. Prevent divorce.
Family and child counselling
Here the importance will be given to the child. Keeping the child, the center points all the evolutions will done to make the family understand the issues what child is going through with his family. Find to make the family realize the importance of their child abilities and disabilities to make the child into a better human being.
Children and adolescents often have difficulties taking the course to study, family unity, losing their individuality and attachment to other outside family members or unrealistic expectations, confused and conflicted children. So, her in the family and child counselling helps in.
Normal results vary, but in good circumstance, they include greater insight, increased differentiation of individual family members, improved communication within the family, loosening of previously automatic behavior patterns and resolutions of the problem.
Family and child counselling therapy bring parents, siblings and extended family members such as aunts, uncles and grandparents into one process. Family plays a very important role in our emotions, spiritual and physical development since each individual in the family system impacts and is impacted by others. This family and child counselling can help children coping with every day worries such as exam stress, relationship issues with friends, family members and teachers. It can also help with self-harm concerns, grief, depression and anxiety and learning difficulties.
Common child related issues that can be managed with the support of counselor include:
Depression and anxiety,
With the help of family therapy all these can be solved by counselling. Sometimes it’s just good to talk to someone objective, other times more guidance may be needed.
These the areas in which I intervene with a motive to give a helping hand to my clients.